Dear Still Water Friends,
Justat the end of last week’s discussion on Mindfulness Practice and NonviolentCommunication, Lynda Martin-McCormick spoke about something she had learned atthe NVC retreat that had really touched her: That our deepest joy comes frombeing in communion – giving to another person as well as receiving.
WhileNVC can be seen and practiced as a gentle but insistent way of getting one’sown wants and needs meet, at it’s core it is much more than that. MarshallRosenberg explains:
The objective… is never to get what we want. It’s the development of a quality of connection that allows everyone’s needs to get met.
Think of needs as flowers on the table, not air in our lungs — beautiful offerings, not something desperately needed for survival.
ThisThursday, April 22, David andLynda Martin-McCormick will help us explore the notion of giving andreceiving as the heart of NVC (and the bridge to interbeing). Whilethis topic arose from last weeks comments, it is a new Thursday and a newdiscussion. It is not necessary to have been there last week to fullyparticipate in this evening.
AMarshall Rosenberg inspired song, “Given to” is below.
Thisweek and next, from
Youare invited to join us this Thursday.
**************** Given to ************************
Inever feel more given to
than when you take from me —
when you understand the joy I feel
giving to you.
And you know my giving isn’t done
to put you in my debt,
but because I want to live the love
I feel for you.
To receive with grace
may be the greatest giving.
There’s no way I can separate
When you give to me,
I give you my receiving.
When you take from me, I feel so
Song “Given To” (1978) by Ruth Bebermeyerfrom the album, “Given To.”