Dear Still Water Friends,
This Thursday evening, after our meditation period, we will focus our program on the choices we make in everyday life that support or undermine our good health and vitality. Our Dharma sharing will be facilitated by Miles Braun, a medical doctor and long-time yoga and mindfulness practitioner. He is now an adjunct professor at Georgetown University School of Medicine and the Lombardi Cancer Center. His opening reflections are below:
After finishing my medical training in public health and preventive medicine I became aware I had to apply what I had learned to my own life. I was a husband and father of two young children with a demanding job, and I saw my blood pressure periodically spiking to disturbingly high levels. Stress was an important contributor to this problem. Even more stress was created when I ruminated intensely on whether I was on the way to repeating patterns within my family history including fatal heart attacks at young ages and severe & chronic anxiety and depression. Wanting to live healthily and also to see my children grow up, and even to see grandchildren someday, I began searching for an effective way to deal with my health challenges.
My training in public health and preventive medicine taught me that the leading causes of death in the United States, including heart disease & stroke, cancer, diabetes, obesity, and chronic lung diseases, are all related to the choices we make in our daily lives. When doctors teach about “lifestyle medicine” they usually focus on six “buckets” or areas of concern: diet, exercise, sleep, social support, stress management and avoiding toxins. Below are some observations from my 25 years of personal experience. (I must caution, though, that serious health conditions (including hypertension and severe depression) should be managed in consultation with a medical professional. Lifestyle medicine is not a sufficient solo approach to all health problems, although it is nearly always a good complement.)
Diet: Inspired by a talk at a yoga retreat I removed meat and poultry from my diet (but retained occasional fish/seafood.) This change was motivated by health concerns, by feelings of compassion for animals, and by memories of dissecting cadavers in gross anatomy class. (It also helped that a yoga teacher pointed out that gorillas are vegetarians and are really strong!) An additional dietary change was cutting way back on butter, cheese and other sources of saturated fat and trans fats (which are only now, 25 years later, being removed from our food supply by the Food and Drug Administration). It took a couple of decades, but now my wife and adult son are pretty much on the same program—maybe someday my daughters too!
Exercise: For many years I have been exercising, usually for a half hour, six days a week. If I am anxious about something, exercise helps takes the edge off and maybe even allows some new insight into coping with the source of stress. Hiking in the woods, or even just walking on a quiet tree-lined street, is enjoyable exercise for me and also an opportunity to “bathe” in nature. I love the upbeat mood that always follows exercise!
Sleep: Although a good night’s sleep is key to recharging my batteries, sometimes I will awaken in the middle of the night and do not easily fall back to sleep due to worry, some unresolved issue or who knows why? When this happens, one natural sleep aid that I like is to lie in bed under the covers and do a gentle version of yogic breathing called ujjayi. Although there is some technique involved, essentially this is just following regular breathing like we commonly do in meditation. The last few years, I have also noticed that alcohol (especially red wine) leads to more sleep interruptions, so the solution for that is clear!
Social support: At the end of my daily yoga practice, I often seal it by dedicating its merits in concentric circles to my wife, children, extended family, friends, neighbors, the “difficult people” and everyone else. The closer to the center of the circle, the more contact, trust, intimacy and mutual support there is. For me now, sangha falls into the important friends-neighbors circle.
Stress management: Six days a week I practice yoga postures (asana) with meditation/savasana toward the end. Yoga and meditation help me ride out the daily stresses and also the big ones like when my sister, my only sibling, passed away 3 years ago. I always feel better physically and mentally during and after yoga, so the practice simply reinforces itself. If I miss more than a day, I just don’t feel right. Sometimes I wonder what would happen if, because of some accident or illness, I could not practice asana. It is reassuring to know, though, that as long as I am around, at least my breath will be around and can be followed!
Avoiding toxins: Writing this now the toxin that I am feeling acutely is following too much digital information. Not too long ago there was another topic, but today the topic is the Kavanaugh nomination to the US Supreme Court. OK, this is important, but do I really need to get pulled in to every detail of what he allegedly did or into multiple pundits’ analyses of it? Multiple polls about it? What his friends did or said? His accusers? Where does it stop? It stops when I look at the clock on my computer, come back to the present moment and set an intention to do something.
This Thursday evening we will begin our Dharma sharing reflecting on and then sharing about these three questions:
– What are some of the wholesome lifestyle choices we have made or are making?
– What are some of the less wholesome choices that we are still making?
– In what ways does (or might) mindfulness practice help us make more skillful choices?
You are invited to join us.
Below is the text of the Thich Nhat Hanh’s fifth mindfulness training, Nourishment and Healing,
The Fifth Mindfulness Training, Nourishment and Healing
Aware of the suffering caused by unmindful consumption, I am committed to cultivating good health, both physical and mental, for myself, my family, and my society by practicing mindful eating, drinking, and consuming. I will practice looking deeply into how I consume the Four Kinds of Nutriments, namely edible foods, sense impressions, volition, and consciousness. I am determined not to gamble, or to use alcohol, drugs, or any other products which contain toxins, such as certain websites, electronic games, TV programs, films, magazines, books, and conversations. I will practice coming back to the present moment to be in touch with the refreshing, healing and nourishing elements in me and around me, not letting regrets and sorrow drag me back into the past nor letting anxieties, fear, or craving pull me out of the present moment. I am determined not to try to cover up loneliness, anxiety, or other suffering by losing myself in consumption. I will contemplate interbeing and consume in a way that preserves peace, joy, and well-being in my body and consciousness, and in the collective body and consciousness of my family, my society and the Earth.
Sun, September 24
Grasonville, MarylandIn-Person Mindful Walk on the Eastern Shore 9:30 am - 11:00 am
Mon, September 25
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Wed, September 27
Online Zoom Meeting,Spanish-Speaking Online Practice 7:00 pm - 8:30 pm
Thu, September 28
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